I Just Want To Be A Good Dad

My daughter is now 9 and despite a long court case, nothing much has changed. For 12 days every fortnight I am a hard-working, broken-hearted person and I cannot find anything in the UK to make me happy.

For the two days every fortnight that I get to spend with my daughter, I am a happy, proud and confident person, a total contrast to my days without her.

Yesterday I gazed out the window watching fireworks and was really missing my angel but I cannot call her, she doesn’t call me and knowing she is only a mile away hurts like hell.

My ex has hurt me for years on end and she seems relentless in erasing me from our daughter’s life and I am reduced to nothing more than a broken-hearted dad that battles on for justice in the courts, so that someone will make my ex encourage our daughter to see me as an equal parent and let me be a part of her life, good times and bad.

I have alot to give and alot to teach her but the only people she gets to see is her mothers’ friends and family, not a true representation of her whole family, which to me is abuse and falls under the title of parental alienation. This is the act of one parent trying to stop meaningful contact with the other parent.

It is time to stand up and make family laws fairer to stop child abuse being carried out and to promote shared parenting in the family courts so broken Britain can start to be repaired for the good of our communities.

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2 Responses to I Just Want To Be A Good Dad

  1. Wahdaholic says:

    this is really sad, our children will always be a strength of a father and being away with them will be really painful.

  2. sharif says:

    some days are harder than others not seeing my girls aged 3 and 2 is heartbreaking. I have not had any contact for two years I dont even know how my daughters look as the last time I saw the little one was when she was 3 weeks old. they only live a mile away also. Its been 14 months running back and forwards to courts solicitors, qquitting my previos job, having to take a new proffessional HSE job with lots of pressure, its been a nightmare, cafcass are rubbish they are so easlily mislead from the fake tears of mothers and sympathetic attitutde from courts magistrates, police. They could all go to hell.
    on my days of from work I get frustrated and can not focus and will go mad if i stay indoors, i dont focus at work and feel vary bitter towards the world. I know my daghters will want to know were thier father is when they are older, my ex will try her very best with her family to brain wash them.
    I know that this will not work as my blood is not that they weak will figure things out for themselves.

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